If you fell for a women you are NOT gay. And It's not about "telling someone they can’t love another person because", it's about gayness being about liking sexually ONLY PEOPLE OF YOUR OWN GENDER. That's all. It's a simple thing regarding the actual meaning of the word, is not about judging or not understanding someone. If you insist on using all those labels, then at least use them right, or nobody will ever understant them. And turn down pathos. Yo're not jesus nor a president.